April Beyer is a Dating Coach & Relationship Expert. April has been seen on Dr. Phil, CBS, ABC 20/20, Vh1 and others. Get the 3 biggest myths about men & dating. Learn how to inspire men in a more powerfully feminine, authentic & confident way!
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MYTH #1 – The first myth is dating is a skill or learned behavior.
MYTH #2 – Making yourself mysterious holds a man’s interest.
MYTH #3 – Our third and final math chemistry is only found stars.
Let’s get started on some myth busting.
MYTH #1 – The first myth is dating is a skill or learned behavior.
This myth tells you that the way you’re on a date should be different than how you are with your best friend or family member or maybe if you and I were sitting together.
A skill or a learned behavior that you need to master and only those that are proficient daters will find love and marriage.
Marriage minded men are invested in finding “The One”, and with this investment and busy schedules including yours there’s just no time to break down walls to wait for the real and authentic woman to show up.
If you feel like you’re the best kept secret in dating it might be because you’ve actually bought into this myth.
The good news is that it’s an easy fix and you can make things so much easier for yourself just by thinking in a different way.
Here’s your inspiring idea. Forget about perfecting your dating skills if you wanna know how to create instant chemistry with a man then write this down and keep it where you can see it every day.
Dating is simply relating and dating requires great relationship skills.
This is how you can actually embrace the opportunity to have a powerful effect on men… You know why? Because you’re gonna make it so easy, to be with you.
Marriage minded men are not looking to be challenged by your presence they’re looking to be comforted by it and how you can get there is just by being you.
MYTH #2 – Making yourself mysterious holds a man’s interest.
This myth tells you that if you’re mysterious that men will be more captivated and drawn to you.
Theres a lot of bad advice out there that teaches women not to give too much and to be ever so slightly out overreach.
The caliber of men you want to meet and eight are mature busy relationship minded man that don’t have time for mystery.
Believe me we as women are already complicated enough.
You don’t need to add on more layers this can really hurt your chances that love it here holding back acting aloof and cool playing games even being shy or not expressing what you think and feel.
It can get the impression that you’re not interested not ready or available or worse yet, not bad deep or interesting.
So who does big mystery game or quit mystery works on men they’re not looking for something real and serious it keeps them coming back for more because you never quite attainable.
But, this is a slippery slope because it’s just not sustainable your always gonna get hurt in the long run. Not to mention its gonna completely waste your time.
Here’s your inspiring idea…
Be an open book. Be the woman that men know quickly and easily.
Don’t be afraid to let your guard down. You’ve got to be fearless here. And whether you know or not, waiting to call a man back or looking like your busy is game-playing and it’s a turnoff to men that are actually looking for relationships.
A woman that is accessible emotionally is like everest a fresh air because you know what not a lot of women are able to do this.
The woman who’s honest present and receptive is always the woman that men want to get to know and usually the women they decide to marry.
MYTH #3 – Our third and final math chemistry is only found stars.
This myth tells you that you have no control over chemistry that it’s magical and elusive and if it’s not there you can’t do anything about it.
most people are under the false impression that it’s primarily about the way someone looks or how much people have in common.
Not having chemistry is one the most common feedback that men and women give for not wanting to pursue each other.
But why is it that a man ends up falling in love with a woman who if his physical ideal and doesn’t seem to share any of its common interests?
I see this happen every single day
What if I were to tell you that chemistry is actually created?
It is an active process connection that requires your participation.
Your femininity is powerful and with it, you are creative and inspiring.
All the man I work with want and need to be married, yes?
And although there are already relationship ready men, they still need to be inspired to approach you or to pursue you for serious relationship.
I hope this has served you and cleared up some the confusion that you’re having.
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Event-fully yours,
BRAD “MagicBrad” GUDIM
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